Mom Needs Memory Support not Memory Care

Does mom need Memory Support or Memory Care? Good Question

I would first like to start with saying that appropriate Memory Support prolongs the need for Memory Care. In a traditional community setting, those with moderate dementia are either not thriving in Assisted Living or have to move to Memory Care too soon. In my opinion providing the right amount of memory support is the toughest area of senior care because it is not strictly defined.

Can Memory Support ever be Strictly Defined?

The answer is No. imagesqqProviding Memory Support to someone with Alzheimer’s & Dementia is like providing a step stool for someone who needs a boost to see over a ledge. The difference is there are different ledges so different step stools are needed. Providing the right amount of support will enable a person to function as independently as possible. Providing too much support will further disable a person and result in a cognitive decline, and providing too little will hinder a person’s abilities to function and thrive. Cognitive Care is another way to describe Memory Support. Memory Care is a specialized care unit/section/or building where maximum cognitive assistance is provided and independence is limited. Memory Care is also usually a small, secure section, where activities and daily interactions are done in a group setting.

Types of Memory Support

  • have duplicates for commonly lost items, and also knowing the hiding places (for this group of folks, the less space they have the better)
  • know their schedule and guide the person through the day, personally guide to appointments and events
  • anticipate needs and provide assistance without being asked
  • explain tasks by breaking them into parts, with easy to understand sentences
  • know and understand the daily routine and provide assistance in a way that does not make a person feel that they need assistance
  • do not assume a person ate if you did not see them eat.
  • while providing additional assistance, make it seem like you are providing a regular service.
  • keep an eye on someone from 10-20 feet away so they don’t feel like you are hovering over them, but you are watching for safety.

Specific Examples

Jan is 78 and has Alzheimer’s Disease. She missed her last doctor’s appointment, hair appointment, and her favorite church concert. While living at home alone, Jan did not eat for 2-4 days, passed out and found herself in the hospital suffering from malnutrition and hydration. What could have been done to avoid these scenarios?

  • Keep track of Jan’s appointments, by helping her make them at a time when transportation is available, if transportation is necessary. Remind Jan earlier that day, make sure she is ready, and personally take her to the appointment.
  • Bring Jan to breakfast, make sure she gets it in front of her.  After breakfast, tell Jan the next meal is lunch and you will get her for that meal. This will put her at ease.
  • Everyday at 2 pm come to Jan with a pretty glass of water, encourage her, and then watch her drink it. Make sure Jan has a beverage in front of her for her meals and that she is drinking. Replace the beverage with an alternative option if needed.

The Take Away……

Many people are not getting the right amount of Memory Support in their current environment. I have found that there is a large percentage of those impaired with Dementia and Alzheimer’s that need more than Assisted Living, but less than Memory Care. These folks need another option. What they need is Memory Support/Cognitive Care in Assisted Living.

Specialized Memory Care for those with Alzheimer’s & Dementia

What is Memory Care?

When you ask this question you get a range of answers. You hear Memory Care is a specialized unit for Alzheimer’s & Dementia. You also hear it is a lock down unit that is separate from the rest of the community. You hear it is a unit for wanderers. You hear Memory Care is somewhere where specialized care is provided.

What is the Answer?

Depends who is answering. Technically a Memory Care Community or a Memory Care Section is where care is provided to those who exhibit symptoms and/or behaviors related to Alzheimer’s or one of the many Dementia Types. The thing is these symptoms and behaviors are vast and vary to different degrees, effect people in different combinations.

The One Size Does Not Fit All phrase I hear everywhere?000 one size

Every community claims that their memory care offers care based on each person’s ability. How is it possible to offer this type of individualized care in a unit where you have residents that are very active physically, residents who are wheelchair bound and have lost their ability to speak, residents that are prone to outbursts or inappropriate behavior?

The Answer?

You can’t. Unless you have a private caretaker or an activity coordinator for each group of individuals you are not able to provide individualized care and engagement because the abilities of the residents with Alzheimer’s or Dementia vary to such a large degree.

The Real Answer?

A Community has to be able to offer 3-4 levels (sections) of secure care for memory support. One of the sections should include the high functioning resident that is prone to wondering, and has an extroverted type of personality. One section should include high functioning residents that need memory support that are not prone to wondering and also have introverted personalities. Another section should be for those residents in the severe stage of Dementia, who have lost most of their language abilities, as well as independent movement. These residents will also likely need specialized diets, and nutrition therapy. The abilities of these residents are the most diminished of the 3 groups and their care and activities are set up accordingly.

The Take Away….

Although there may be a desire to provide individual care and engagement, that desire is not enough if the environment is not conducive to make that happen. Because the symptoms and behaviors of Alzheimer’s Disease and Dementia vary so greatly, it is imperative to separate residents within the community into smaller groups based on their cognitive and physical abilities. Once this is accomplished, a community is able to create the environment, the care structure, and an engagement plan to meet the need of the residents in each section or group.

Delicious Puree Recipes for Assisted Living & Memory Care

One of my favorite puree recipes are Mango Moose Cups. They are easy to make, and  most importantly very delicious.

    Ingredients you will need
  • 1 tsp gelatin powder
  • 2 tbsp water
  • 5 oz mango puree
  • 2 tbsp granulated white sugar (or more to taste)
  • 5 oz heavy whipping cream

Dissolve gelatin into 1 tbsp of water. Heat remaining 1 tbsp water until it is hot/almost boiling and add to gelatin, stirring until gelatin is fully dissolved. Add gelatin and puree into blender and mix on high speed until fully blended. In a stand mixer, add 2 tbsp sugar and heavy cream and whip on high speed until stiff peaks form. Slowly add puree into the whipped cream, folding it into the cream until completely mixed and uniform in color. Pour into individual portion cups and refrigerate to set.

It is very important to use pretty glassware that is the right size for the right person. One person may require a 4 oz glass and one a 12 oz glass. It is important to note that personal preferences are very important in all food preparation.  Here is an example of a pretty glass.

68d62aeb13c9fe7b24924c8bef61ca5a--dusty-rose-pretty-in-pinkIf we follow this wonderful, easy to make recipes you will get:

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(please note that the garnishment on top of the mouse is for decoration designed to make the cup look appetizing. Decoration should be removed prior to consumption for those that are on a pure diet)

Conversations with Dementia Consultant-Navigating the Transition

Alzheimer’s and related dementia’s have a profound impact on family members and the experiences of loved ones living with dementia. As neurodegenerative medical conditions progress they often demand increased attention to needs and environmental transitions can be imminent, but helpful.  The stress and duress of change requires decision making, a lot of detail, and typically a period of adjustment for everyone involved.

Orchard Senior Living recognizes change for some families can be emotionally and physically overwhelming or challenging.  We want to help by offering you the provision of a Transitional Counselor who will support your transition beginning to end.

When living with dementia, we face transitions that are accompanied by a desire and longing to find our way to “well-being.”  We want to feel in control, confident, comfortable with ourselves, and valued by those who are important to us. Talking to someone who understands, creates courage and elicits new ideas when managing change or challenges.

I’m Robin Andrews, a solution focused communications consultant specializing in transition for families living with dementia.  I have a master’s degree in marriage and family therapy and have worked in behavioral healthcare and aging services for 15 years. My collaborative counseling model is based on personal competency and solution-building rather than problem solving. Minimizing emphasis on past failings and problems, I instead focus on a persons’ strengths, abilities and successes.  I would be honored to assist you in a journey toward hope, healing, and self-discovery.skydd

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The 7 Stages of Alzheimer’s Disease

Every person with Alzheimer’s disease experiences the disease differently, but patients tend to experience a similar trajectory from the beginning of the illness to its merciful end. The precise number of stages is somewhat arbitrary. Some experts use a simple three-phase model (early, moderate and end), while others have found a granular breakdown to be a more useful aid to understanding the progression of the illness.

The 7 Stages of Alzheimer's Disease

The most common system, developed by Dr. Barry Reisberg of New York University, breaks the progression of Alzheimer’s disease into seven stages. This framework for understanding the progression of Alzheimer’s disease has been adopted and used by a number of healthcare providers as well as the Alzheimer’s Association.

Here is summary of the seven stages of Alzheimer’s disease based on the ideas of Dr. Resiberg:

Stage 1: No Impairment

During this stage, Alzheimer’s disease is not detectable and no memory problems or other symptoms of dementia are evident.

Stage 2: Very Mild Decline

The senior may notice minor memory problems or lose things around the house, although not to the point where the memory loss can easily be distinguished from normal age related memory loss. The person will still do well on memory tests and the disease is unlikely to be detected by physicians or loved ones.

Stage 3: Mild Decline

At this stage, the friends and family members of the senior may begin to notice memory and cognitive problems. Performance on memory and cognitive tests are affected and physicians will be able to detect impaired cognitive function.

Patients in stage 3 will have difficulty in many areas including:

  • finding the right word during conversations
  • remembering names of new acquaintances
  • planning and organizing

People with stage three Alzheimer’s may also frequently lose personal possessions, including valuables.

Stage 4: Moderate Decline

In stage four of Alzheimer’s disease clear cut symptoms of Alzheimer’s disease are apparent. Patients with stage four Alzheimer’s disease:

  • Have difficulty with simple arithmetic
  • May forget details about their life histories
  • Have poor short term memory (may not recall what they ate for breakfast, for example)
  • Inability to manage finance and pay bills

Stage 5: Moderately Severe Decline

During the fifth stage of Alzheimer’s, patients begin to need help with many day to day activities. People in stage five of the disease may experience:

  • Significant confusion
  • Inability to recall simple details about themselves such as their own phone number
  • Difficulty dressing appropriately

On the other hand, patients in stage five maintain a modicum of functionality. They typically can still bathe and toilet independently. They also usually still know their family members and some detail about their personal histories, especially their childhood and youth.

Stage 6: Severe Decline

Patients with the sixth stage of Alzheimer’s disease need constant supervision and frequently require professional care. Symptoms include:

  • Confusion or unawareness of environment and surroundings
  • Major personality changes and potential behavior problems
  • The need for assistance with activities of daily living such as toileting and bathing
  • Inability to recognize faces except closest friends and relatives
  • Inability to remember most details of personal history
  • Loss of bowel and bladder control
  • Wandering

Stages 7: Very Severe Decline

Stage seven is the final stage of Alzheimer’s disease. Because Alzheimer’s disease is a terminal illness, patients in stage seven are nearing death. In stage seven of the disease, patients lose ability to respond to their environment or communicate. While they may still be able to utter words and phrases, they have no insight into their condition and need assistance with all activities of daily living. In the final stages of the illness, patients may lose their ability to swallow.

Aromatherapy at the Orchard

aromatherapy at the orchard

Aromatherapy uses pure essential oils to improve physical, mental, and emotional health. The sense of smell connects directly with emotions, memories, and instincts. Because of the neuro-associative conditioning process, aromas have the power to evoke states of well being.

Peppermint is an essential oil used as an energizer. It’s best used in the morning, to help stimulate the mind and at the same time calm the nerves. Peppermint is used as a morning pick-me-up and a natural boost for our residents to start their day. Lavender is an essential oil used to calm feelings of anxiety, depression, and general mood swings. Lavender has also been shown to help treat insomnia resulting in a better night’s sleep.

Aromatherapy draws upon the healthing powers of the leaves, flowers, stems, bark, seeds, roots, or peels of plants. When you inhale a scent, that aroma travels directly to the hypothalamus, which regulates a variety of functions such as sleep and emotion. Each morning between 7 am – 8 am, we diffuse Peppermint throughout The Orchard at Tucker. We hope to stimulate appetite and diffuse a postivie aroma into our reidents’ daily morning routine.

Each evening between 7 pm – 8 pm we diffuse Lavender throughout both of our Season’s Neighborhoods. Lavender helps with our residents’ mental fatique, anxiety, as well as aches and pains. Levender’s calming powers aid our residents to a blissful nights sleep.

To schedule a tour of the Orchard at Tucker, click here or call (770) 938-5600.

Residents Experience Our Multi-Sensory Room

orchard assisted senior living in tucker, georgia

Here at the Orchard, we have an incredible Multi-Sensory Room that provides our residents with a gentle stimulation of sight, sound, taste, smell, and movement in a controlled way. We use it to enhance feelings of well-being, reduce stress, relieve pain, and to maximize their potential to focus, all of which help improve communication and memory.

Our room includes soft textiles, familiar objects, and an interesting visual environment. Numerous studies show that multi-sensory rooms have an immediate positive effect on residents with dementia. The room is designed to create a feeling of soothing comfort and safety in a therapeutic surrounding for all residents regardless of their cognitive or physical deficits.

A Sensory Room can brings a person back to a place of safety, relaxation, and control. Read more about it here or contact us today and schedule a tour of our Orchard Community located in Tucker, Georgia here.

Dementia and Difficult Behavior

When you think of dementia you typically think of memory loss first. What many are not prepared for is how other behaviors can change too. In many cases, it is these difficult behaviors that families report as more troublesome than memory loss.

What is difficult dementia behavior? Difficult behavior includes actions that are destructive, highly upsetting, or unsafe for themselves or others. Difficult behavior does not include behavior that seems unusual or bothersome, such as asking questions repeatedly or preferring particular foods, clothing or routines.

As friends and family, it’s important to change our attitudes, behavior, and habits to prevent and even reduce any difficult behavior. Start with these valuable tips:

Focus on your nonverbal communication.
Make yourself aware of your facial expressions, posture, and tone of voice. People with dementia will reflect your nonverbal communication. Make sure the nonverbal communication you bring into the room matches what you want to see in them.

Model positive emotions.
Put aside strong feelings that may distract or trouble you. People with dementia generally understand your emotions.

Keep it simple.
Provide clear instructions and ask yes/no questions. Limit options to two choices.

Pay attention to body language.
It will provide clues about your loved one’s emotional state what they need. Respond before difficult behavior begins to ultimately evade any difficult behavior.

Avoid even small arguments.
Adding conflict to the situation only makes things worse. Do not argue, correct or try to convince using facts and logic.

Caring for someone with dementia can be tiring, stressful, and confusing without the right help and knowledge. Consider getting extra aid from our compassionate caregivers at the Orchard, we offer excellent dementia care services that can help reduce and prevent difficult behavior. Contact us here for more information and schedule a tour of our assisted living community in Tucker, Georgia!

Senior Sun Safety

sun safety outdoors - tucker, gaSummer weather is great for relaxing with family and friends. Too much outdoor time for seniors, however, can lead to problems like sunburn or dehydration. By taking a few precautions, these problems can be avoided so you can get the most out of long summer days.

Wear the right clothing
The best summertime clothing for seniors is lightweight and made out of breathable fabric such as cotton. Shirts should be long-sleeved, and seniors should wear wide brimmed hats.

Apply sunscreen early and often
Sunscreen takes time to work, so doing wait until you’re poolside to apply sunscreen. Try to apply about an hour before you head outside and reapply every two hours.

Drink plenty of fluids
Seniors are less likely to feel thirsty and dehydration can come on unexpectedly. Try to drink between 6 and 8 glasses of water a day, especially on days involving physical activity, or if the weather is particularly hot.

Stay indoors during the hottest hours
The sun is most intense during the middle of the day. Save activities like gardening or walking for the early morning or evening when the weather is cooler.

Weather can get extremely hot during the summer in Tucker, GA. Do your best to follow these tips so you can get the most out of your time outdoors this year. Our assisted living community offers gardening programs, great outdoor recreational areas, and plenty of seats in the shade. Contact us today to schedule a tour and experience the Orchard difference.